Very true. It seems to me that they are all brainwashed that way. To play the victims. Poor me. whether they chose to come to the island or not. thats where they are... " poor others.." and now with our losties crashing there. Poor them again and they dont have thier island to themselves for thier lame projects anymore... Poor danny for being an irrational baffoon... poor everyone... it seems.

I dont have any pity for them. And i can see how they might be like that. and yes. Jack doesnt feel sorry for himself. He doesnt ask for pity. He takes control of his life.