Ah! but we also are given free will. God gave us the gift of choice. As a child I was born to a very abusive father. He had the choice to do what he did or not. I had the choice to stay, run away, tell someone and in the extreme I could have taken my life or his. I made my choice to speek out and move forward with my life. Others would choose differently. in the end, I agree that it is a mix of all three.

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